Aggrieved!!!!

Today I feel totally aggrieved by the lack of kindness in our daily lives..sometimes I think we forget the few words of wisdom shared with us by our mothers, grandmother etc etc...it was my grandmother by the way...then my mother and my aunt I can remember reminding the seven of us..NO not dwarfs... grandchildren..THAT  LITTLE BIT OF KINDNESS GOES A LONG WAY, THAT WORDS HURT AND ONCE IT IS OUT OF YOUR MOUTH YOU CAN'T TAKE IT BACK!!!!!!!

I would like to think that I have taken these little pearls of wisdom to heart and it forms part of me and how I treat people...I may be deluded but I like to think that I am a bit more aware of what I do or say...obviously I am also aware that the best people to confirm this will be others that experience me...none the less I BELIEVE!!!!!!!

I often come away with questions about why things have happened and how it could have been better. Sometimes I get the answers other times I just don't know how..then you turn to those you supposedly trust hoping that they may help but then they to give you a bit of a frown...I don't enjoy that...it is just too much hard work.

I sometimes just wish I could wrap people in cotton wool to protect them...but I also know that each of us have a responsibility and an ability to protect ourselves...with that in mind though I still feel so sad when I see things happen...

Sometimes I feel able, confident, strong and so on and so forth...but other times I feel terribly helpless...the latter I do not like to feel and therefore I must react and that often is to point out how actions and words can be interpreted...and you know what... it comes back and bites me right in my backside...what is the lesson for me here because there is definitely one for me to learn...

I still firmly believe that a little bit of kindness goes a long way...lets see if that little bit of kindness reaches someone today...I need to see it not to feel so despondent about it...I know there is good in each and everyone of us lets all just try and tap into that!!!!!